“My Dog Hates Going to the Kennel!” – Transform Resistance into Excitement
“Struggling with ‘my dog hates going to the kennel’? That panicked whine, the tucked tail, the desperate pull towards the car… if the mere mention of the kennel sends your dog into a spiral of anxiety, you’re not alone. Many pet parents face this heart-wrenching scenario. But take heart! That resistance isn’t a life sentence. With patience and the right approach, you can transform kennel dread into tail-wagging anticipation.
Understanding the Why:
First, recognise why your dog hates it. Common reasons include:
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Separation Anxiety: Fear of being away from you* is the core issue.
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Negative Associations: A past stressful experience (real or perceived) linked the kennel with fear.
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Novelty Overload: The sights, sounds, smells, and other dogs are simply overwhelming.
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Loss of Routine: Dogs thrive on predictability, and boarding disrupts that.
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The Transformation Plan: Turning Fear into Fun:
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Start Small & Positive (Way Before Drop-Off): Don’t wait until boarding day! Begin weeks or even months prior.
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Drive-Bys & Short Visits: Take calm, happy walks near the kennel. Pop in just to say hi to the staff, get a treat, and leave immediately. No pressure to stay. The goal: Kennel = Good Vibes & Quick Exits.
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Positive Association Power: Bring your dog’s favourite high-value treats (chicken, cheese, special biscuits) ONLY for kennel visits. Staff should lavish praise and treats too. Make it the best treat-party location ever!
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Practice Makes Progress (Desensitization):
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The Kennel Cue: Use the word “kennel” or “camp” playfully at home during fun activities unrelated to actual boarding.
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Mock Packing: Occasionally, pack your dog’s bag and load the car, then just go for a fun drive or park visit. Break the link between suitcase = doom.
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Short “Daycations”: If possible, book your dog for a few hours of daycare at the same kennel before an overnight stay. This builds familiarity in a low-pressure way.
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Build Trust with the Kennel:
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Meet the Staff: Ensure your dog meets the caregivers beforehand in a relaxed setting. Let them bond.
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Share the Loves (and Fears): Provide the kennel with detailed info: favourite toys, comfort items (a worn t-shirt of yours!), specific fears (loud noises, certain dogs), and their usual routine. The personalised the care, the safer they feel.
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Bring the Familiar: Pack their regular food, beloved blanket, and a durable toy that smells like home. Familiar scents are incredibly comforting.
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Drop-Off Zen: Keep it Cool & Confident:
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Your Energy Matters: Dogs are emotional sponges. If you’re anxious and tearful at drop-off, they will feel it. Project calm confidence and cheerfulness, even if you’re sad inside.
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No Drawn-Out Goodbyes: Make your goodbye brief, upbeat, and matter-of-fact. Lingering amplifies their anxiety. A quick “Have fun! See you soon!” and a confident exit is best.
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Trust the Pros: Remind yourself they are in caring hands. Avoid calling constantly; let them settle.
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Patience is Key: This transformation won’t happen overnight, especially for deeply anxious dogs. Celebrate small victories! That first time they walk in without pulling back or take a treat happily is huge progress.
Partner with Your Kennel: Choose a facility that understands anxiety and is willing to work with you on gradual introductions and providing extra TLC. Their patience and expertise are invaluable.
The Reward: Imagine the day your dog wags upon arrival, excited to see their kennel friends and explore! By investing time in positive conditioning and building trust, you replace fear with the potential for a genuinely fun, safe “doggie vacation.” It takes effort, but seeing your relaxed, happy pup enjoy their stay is worth it. Start small, stay positive, and watch the resistance melt away!
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